We all had a version of Better Than Sex Cake back in the ’80’s, and this one comes from a good friend of my mom’s. I had to change it just a bit, as you’ll see later, because this was my son’s request for his birthday cake this year, and he has very specific tastes. There is also a handwritten recipe for this cake in my recipe book, and while it’s not exactly the same as this one, it is very similar. This cake is so decadent and so delicious – it’s amazing, really. I hadn’t made this cake in years, and when my son asked for it for his birthday cake this year, I was glad to make it again. It’s so easy to make, too. We had all forgotten how good this cake is! Wow! I made it in a square pan instead of a regular cake pan, and after one bite, I was regretting my decision. From what I remember, this cake is very rich and can get to be a bit much. I thought a whole pan of it – just for our family – would be a lot of this cake. Wrong. It had me wishing I had made the whole cake pan, but then we’d have to eat the whole thing. On no – that would be the worst (insert eye roll here). But seriously – a while a piece or two of this cake is great, a whole cake is a whole lot. If you’re serving a crowd – go ahead and make the whole recipe in a regular 9″ x 13″ cake pan and enjoy. It holds pretty well in the frig, too, so I say – go for it!
Here is the recipe as I made it:
Better Than Sex Cake
Bake according to package instruction:
1 German Chocolate Cake mix (we didn’t need a whole cake, so I divided the batter into 2 pans and froze one to make Baked Alaska at a later date – a bonus is that I made the cake the day before)
Cool and poke holes in cake with the handle of a wooden spoon.
Pour on:
1 can sweetened condensed milk (my recipe says 1 cup)
1-12.25 ounce jar Caramel Sauce (ice cream topping – my recipe says 1 cup, and my son likes butterscotch better, so we used that instead of caramel)
At this point I put the cake into the refrigerator until ready to serve – I didn’t want to make the whipped cream and have it fall before serving the cake. If using Cool Whip, you can put it on, have it in the frig, and have the cake ready to go.
Spread over top:
1 large container Cool Whip (I used 1 cup heavy whipping cream, whipped, on our 9″ square cake)
Sprinkle on top:
3 Heath candy bars, chopped or crushed (I used 1 1/2 bars for the 9″ cake – you can also use Skor candy bars)
Can also top with strawberries (this comes from my recipe).
Keep refrigerated.
Poke the holes and pour in the “plenty sweet” ingredients!
It seems like a lot to pour on/in, but it will all go into the holes and soak into the cake.
Cool Whip (or in my case, whipped cream) goes on top and then sprinkle on the chopped Heath candy bar pieces.
I added a few strawberries, and I think they added just the right touch.
The birthday boy was happy.
This cake is very easy to make and comes together very fast – that’s why you can make it any day – not just for a special occasion. It’s just a ridiculously good cake. I might even say that it’s light at the same time as being rich and decadent. I’m just glad my son requested this so it can move back to the top of our recipe rotation. Go ahead and make it this weekend. Whoever you make it for will be very, very happy. Maybe just don’t tell them the name – or maybe they’ll guess that it’s Better Than Sex Cake!